Let me begin today’s post by telling you how much I appreciate all of
you reading this blog. Your interest keeps me going. It makes me research more,
read more and learn more than I ever would do if I didn’t write these postings.
And to even think for how long I was pondering on a decision to start it…
But, as we all know, sometimes
it’s not easy for a person to realize her own will. The will is there, but not
always we do exactly what we want.
In my readings I came across some very useful tips to help us
strengthen our willpower. Today I’m sharing those here with you.
1st Practice your willpower to
perfection. Use small steps to strengthen your will. For example, intend to
praise a person once a day and every day work on fulfilling that intention.
2nd “I want” lines in everyday communication. Regularly start your
lines with the "I want” phrase and soon you will notice that you’ll carry
out your will more and more.
3rd Want rather than need. Every sentence that starts with "I need to" replace with "I want to". Soon you’ll feel your will growing stronger.
4th Rethink your goals. Check your goals. Do you really want to achieve them? And if you do, clearly imagine how it will be (how will you feel, how it will look like) when you carry out your will.
5th Endure. Ingredients for the strengthening of your willpower are endurance, perseverance and patience.
6th Apply your will only upon yourself. When your will is related to someone else, be careful. If you want someone to do something you want, precisely verify that the person has a reason to do what you want them to do.
3rd Want rather than need. Every sentence that starts with "I need to" replace with "I want to". Soon you’ll feel your will growing stronger.
4th Rethink your goals. Check your goals. Do you really want to achieve them? And if you do, clearly imagine how it will be (how will you feel, how it will look like) when you carry out your will.
5th Endure. Ingredients for the strengthening of your willpower are endurance, perseverance and patience.
6th Apply your will only upon yourself. When your will is related to someone else, be careful. If you want someone to do something you want, precisely verify that the person has a reason to do what you want them to do.
You need… ooops you want these skills so you can have inner peace and
happiness. With these skills external events will not affect you, and
circumstances will have no power over your peace of mind.
I really enjoyed writing this post today and I hope you’ll find these
tips beneficial to you. Till the next post have a good time and be inspired.
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